I’m putting Lassik’s book on my Wish List. I have skinny-genes, and my interests and hobbies generally do not include sitting. I have to fight to keep my weight up. While hope is not a strategy, I’ve been hoping that as I got older that my weight would naturally go up a little, but I’m quickly approaching 40, and so far, no change. I’ve recently been forcing myself to sit still through an entire episode of NCIS, every night, while boredom eating trail mix… perhaps that will work.
Our culture is whacko about this stuff: you wouldn’t believe the comments I get from strangers about how I look. NO ONE would go up to an overweight stranger and comment about her weight, but apparently politeness does not apply to thin people.
There is a fledgling movement in women/beauty industry that is taking on the anti-beauty/”you are not ____ enough” philosophy of the mainstream. These little companies have pro-woman marketing ethics and celebrate “natural” women. Their umbrella motto is “healthy is beautiful”. I support these companies every way I can.
Thanks Lacey for sharing your comments and insights. I agree.
The best option is to have your body fat measured (some people store fat preferentially in one area over another) but as a general rule, when you can easily see the outline of the clavicle (collar bone), forearm bones, pelvis, scapula (shoulder blade) and ribcage, there’s a very good chance that body fat is too low. Here’s an example.
This is encouraging. I forget that women like Sophia Loren were and still are considered beautiful.
Our culture is so convinced that thin is the only form of beauty. Glad you found this encouraging. Thanks for reading and commenting. Spread the news!
So if your bones show you don’t have enough body fat? I don’t know what my % is, but I do know my ribs/pelvis have always been visible. I just assumed I have kind of large ribs. My BMI is around 19ish. If I were to gain weight, it would probably all go to my belly and not position itself nicely in Sophia Loren fashion.