Doug,
Sorry to hear about you and Ellen’s loss. I enjoyed getting to know Spencer the few times we hung out. Of coure, I didn’t get to know him until much later in his life, but he was a good dog. I know he’s already missed. My condolences.
Thanks Chris – I appreciate it. He was indeed a good dog.
My deepest sympathies to you. I know the pain of loss from such a friend as that, but it can never take away the years of love, and laughter and fun and learning that you were blessed with. It seems so unfair that their lives are so short, but they pack in so much life in their short stay with us on this planet. We are always the better for having known them. They teach us about unconditional love and acceptance, and living in the moment, and adaptability, and fun, and they bring their very special type of happiness and challenges into our lives. Know that Spencer would want you to continue in these traits that he taught you throughout his life.
Thank you Lynn – you described it well. I appreciate your kind words.
So sorry about Spencer. He looks beautiful in his picture. They are family to us and it hurts a lot when we lose them. Hang in there.
So sorry to hear about your loss of Spencer.
I am so very sorry for your loss, Doug. When I first starting reading your blogs, I felt connected to you through Spencer. I, too, had a Dalmatian. I rescued her from a shelter as a graduation gift to myself after PT school. I, like you, did not realize the amount of energy contained in that spotted body!! I wanted to give up on her so many times early on, but I stuck with it and she became my best friend. I always thought that she was a human trapped in a dog’s body. We lost her way too soon – at 10, from a heart condition. I like to say … it wasn’t the years, it was the mileage!! Your comment “how loud the silence is” goes straight to my heart. Thank you for sharing your story and your pain, and please know that there are many of us out here that share your sorrow and wish you the best.
“…. Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you … I loved you so – ’twas Heaven here with you.” – Isla Paschal Richardson
Thank you Vicki – I love the quote. Dalmatians are a special breed. I had no idea just how special until I met Spencer.
Doug, I, too, lost my best buddy about a year ago. Roadie had nose cancer and we had to put him down. It was the hardest things I’ve ever done. Even though it’s been a year, my heart still aches for Roadie. I get closer everyday to going to rescue a new buddy, but the pain of losing Roadie holds me back. I know getting “back into the saddle” will heal my heart, as we have had many dogs over the years. But, Roadie was special. Of course, no other dog will “replace” Roadie. But, I know another dog deserves my love. So, maybe soon I’ll visit the humane society. I know you, too, have lots of love in your heart. Just look at what your teachings do for all of your followers. I hope, you, too, will fill the void in your heart with unconditional love from another deserving animal. With sympathy, Patti Clifford
Thank you Patti – I’m sorry to hear about Roadie. Loss is hard but I know things get better. Takes time.